A Sibling Perspective About Travel

Through some of the many, many China support groups on Facebook and in real life, I hear a lot of discussion about taking children already in the home to China with the new parents to bring home a new child. People wonder, worry and discuss because it is a decision worthy of all that. It’s…

Shared List Update as of October 5, 2015

Total – 2107 Girls – 564 (26.8%) Boys – 1543 (73.2%) Dossier First – 2 (0.094%) Aging Out (10+ years old) – 712 (33.8%), 232 girls/480 boys Aging Out (12+ years old) – 327 (15.5%), 104 girls/223 boys Aging Out (13+ years old) – 175 (8.3%), 57 girls/118 boys Breaking it down: There are 712 children age 10 and up as of the end…

Maybe Your Child is Not in China?

Here at Red Thread we are PASSIONATE for the amazing kids who are waiting in China. We are all very familiar with their well-run program and China is knitted into our families’ stories in a very special way. However, we often hear people say they would love to adopt from China, but do not meet…

Help a Mama Out, Here!

For the last few months, advocates have taken you from thinking about China adoption all the way to Family Day and a little beyond. And although we are proud of the overview we have provided, obviously this series alone cannot adequately prepare you for your adoption journey. There is so much more to discuss…coming home,…

Hannah’s Story

Hilary is a guest writer for Red Thread and experienced adoptive mom who is committed to telling the child’s side of the story when a disruption occurs.  We are sitting in Hannah’s hospital room after her second surgery to repair her club feet, the first one in China failed miserably. The medication suddenly wore off…

Orphanage Visit – To Go or Not to Go

For many adoptive parents, THAT is the question. Before traveling to China, I was 100% certain that I wanted to visit my son’s orphanage. I wanted to see what his little life had been like for the first 4 years. Once Adoption Day rolled around, I wasn’t so sure. My sweet 4 year old son walked…

Shared List Update as of August 19, 2015

Total Files – 2,091 Girls – 564 (27%) Boys – 1527 (73%) Dossier First – 1 (0.05%) Aging Out (10+ years old) – 692 (33%), 219 girls/473 boys Aging Out (12+ years old) – 308 (14.7%) 91 girls/217 boys Aging Out (13+ years old) – 160 (7.6%) 47 girls/113 boys Breaking it down: There are 692 children age 10 and…

Welcome to China!

You made it! Now what?!?! **As a disclaimer, many adoption agencies are very specific on their travel itineraries & timelines. Everyone’s time in China will follow the same basic steps, but specifics may vary from what is represented here. Your agency will finalize your specific travel agenda before you leave. For families in a medical…